Agreed Sean.

Not worth the risk and utter destruction.

Don-t cross that line. Those who do for the most part get caught. Unless one is a glutton for pain and shame stay away. Heres noting: Yes, there are those who seem to handle the resulting crap better than others, not me.

Absolute wisest approach is step into the batters box. man up, cojones time, and tell your partner you're not happy. The hell you'll endure will be no fun but by god sooo much better than the living hell if your caught with your drawers down around your ankles...

Good one.

T