Hi Meaghan,

My wife used to be the thin person, over the years she-s now into the two hundreds. As for me though always a little overweight, no big deal, cancer cut me down to my desired 170. So after twenty something years together she has taken up the battle against weight gain.

My point being that this last year I have become the one who must be understanding of my over weight wife. I am very careful with my comments, knowing how even a small, humorous jab is hurtful