Larry,

You done it again! Haha.

Here's another one if I may:

So after twenty five years, (my second 25 year plus marriage) it has become exceedingly clear that twenty years ago I ceased having any power, authority, calling the shots in the marriage. There are moments of uncanny clarity that assures me this is wrong...

No wait. Larry, I'm being told that this is perfectly normal. Idiot me. It has only taken me almost fifty years of marital life to understand this is perfectly normal. We were never meant to be the boss of anything...

Keep up the great writing amigo.

Tom

pd: And you know what? Let me know if you get this same illumination. The fact that I am not the one calling the shots is deliciously liberating!

Oh wait, wait, I'm being told that this is perfectly normal, and it is the consummate fool who resists this law of existence...